Lay Servants


I’m doing a re-run of a popular posting from April today, as I catch up on life–after my fantastic trip to COR Leadership Institute last week. I plan blogs of poetry next Tuesday and Thursday.

One of my favorite activities over the past two years has been to facilitate sessions of the Basic Lay Servant Class for new and mature Methodists in the Metro District of Milwaukee.  We call that course Today’s Disciples, and it is a dynamite course, where I see great growth and enthusiasm with each group we share the course. This is a foundational course that lays the framework for leadership in preaching, story telling, stewardship, youth ministries, caring ministries and many more areas. I am the coordinator now in a number of these courses each year, and help teach the curriculum with a team of lay servants and pastors. In January, it was my pleasure to work again with Pastor Rachel Olson, Pastor at Calvary UMC in West Allis, and my frequent team member and friend, Sharon Black, a dynamic speaker who surprises me each time we work together. This is an exciting course, because the dynamics of each group make it fresh every time I participate in the class; it is exciting, invigorating, and we are led to mighty action by the Spirit.

The course targets new members, current members, and all leaders, including lay members to annual conference, lay leaders, council members, committee members, teachers, lay servants and aspiring lay servants, and basically everyone who seeks to learn about our Methodist roots, and some basics of Covenant Groups. The curriculum covers servant and spiritual leadership; caring ministries; basic communication skills; sharing your faith; leading meetings; resources and opportunities. Sometimes we meet over 5 weeks in two-hour sessions. Sometimes we meet on three Saturdays for four hours each of the three weeks. Once I worked with another team in Racine where we did the course as a weekend retreat. Each format has its advantages. For me, I think the three Saturdays in the Summer format is most productive; I snuck a little extra time in with that format! Our text is Lay Speaking Ministries, Participant’s Book: Basic Course, by Sandy Zeigler Jackson & Brian Jackson. This is a wonderful small book. I first used it as a Lenten Devotional in early 2010, as I was starting to plan for developing leadership in the course. In many ways, it has been the best Lenten Devotional I ever explored.  It was my pleasure to both participate and lead the course that first time in August 2010. My friend Rex Nelson, much more experienced than I am with this program, sometimes describes the course as a next course after Confirmation and after New Member class. I like that description. I also like to say that it is an ongoing discipleship course that keeps us growing. I recommend the course for almost everyone, whether they want to be a speaker or not, whether they want to be a “leader” or not.

I started working with Rex Nelson, the District Director of Lay Servant  Ministries, Metro North, in early 2010, and I led the first five-unit course that I helped lead in August 2010. I had participated in advanced courses before that, but there just didn’t seem to be enough Basic Courses offered in the area.  So Rex invited me to organize my own class, and I did! We had 9 participants at West Allis First United Methodist Church that first time. Since then, I helped lead three more series in 2011, and one so far in 2012. I have made a committment to organize two sessions each year in Milwaukee-land. I grow, and I am invigorated each year with small groups in this wonderful class.

I have fond memories of fellow-disciples I met at First Church, and a great group who gathered Wednesday nights at Bay View United Methodist last January and February.  I get goose bumps when I recall the fantastic group at New Hope Hmong Church.  My friends in Racine challenged me and taught me some new techniques.  Pastor Andy Oren and Pastor Rachel Olson have both taught me and excited me with their stories.  Jeff Edwards became my friend in one of my first Lay Servant classes, and somehow our paths became entwined in more and more classes and experiences.  I believe that Jeff will always be my good friend in discipleship.

As I started a little review in our final class in February, I was struck again by some of the topics we were reviewing.  This is good material for all of us–wherever we are in our spiritual walk.  After opening devotions, I reviewed the concept of disciple with our class.  A disciple is a person dedicated to learning from a master.  A volunteer does something because they want to, but a disciple does something because their master wants them to.  Rex Nelson uses the example from Karate Kid:  “Wax on; wax off.”  We have a lot of natural volunteers in our class each session, it seems.  Through our discussions and exercises in accountable groups, we recognize more fully that Jesus is our master.

Before showing additional resources and opportunities for disciple formation in that final class (particularly reviewing materials at www.DiscipleConnection.org), we review some important concepts about disciple formation.  In this class, we quickly review accountability; I think John Wesley would like this.  Disciples answer to Jesus and to their peers for performance and behavior.  For many today, this class is a first experience with focus on accountability, and with participating in covenant groups.  We review again the concept of Christian stewardship; sometimes this topic did not receive enough time in our third week session.  Disciples are stewards.  They are accountable for growing God’s gifts to the individual and the community through nurture and exercise.  By these activities, we help implement God’s plan to transform the world.

We give added focus to intentionality in this final session.  Can we achieve and be accountable for God’s plan for growth and transformation without intentionality?  We guide each other toward tools and committment to identifying our individual plans for ministry.  We review discernment too.  This has been a course about discernment for the entire period.  For what gifts and changes are we individually accountable now?  We speak here too about staying in contact with our pastors, and maintaining contact and regular conversation with our accountability groups and with mentors.

We remember the importance of equipping; how will we each nurture our gifts?  We review engaging in some further discussion before we dig into the resources; how will we exercise our gifts to transform the world?  We review our activities from the past weeks and we dig into what is next.  We prepare once again to go out into the world.

I have been delighted to be privileged to repeat this experience several times each year.  I pray that others will enjoy and grow in this experience each time.

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Thinking on World Homeless Day


The purpose of World Homeless Day is to draw attention to homeless people’s needs locally and provide opportunities for the community to get involved in responding to homelessness, while taking advantage of the stage an ‘international day’ provides.

This World Homeless Day website exists to resource local groups to take the concept of World Homeless Day and run with it to benefit homeless people locally in their area.

This is an annual event on the 10th of the 10th every year.

The musical video is quite informative this year:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=nWLbvIdw9fs

Musicians for a Cause Initiative

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I really liked this story. I understand that it was originally published in a devotional called “No Compromise” by Jim Burns, Ph. D. [2002], and is published by Regal Books, a division of Gospel Light Publishers.

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We were the only family with children in the restaurant. I sat Erik in a high chair and noticed everyone was quietly eating and talking. Suddenly, Erik squealed with glee and said, “Hi there.” He pounded his fat baby hands on the high-chair tray. His eyes were wide with excitement and his mouth was bared in a toothless grin. He then, wriggled and giggled with merriment.

I looked around and saw the source of his merriment. It was a man with a tattered rag of a coat; dirty, greasy and worn. His pants were baggy with a zipper at half-mast and his toes poked out of would-be shoes. His shirt was dirty and his hair was uncombed and unwashed. His whiskers were too short to be called a beard and his nose was so varicose it looked like a road map.

We were too far from him to smell, but…

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Praying for the Elections


I missed this in September, but Max Lucado’s push for Americans to pray for the    presidential election makes sense to me.

http://foxnewsinsider.com/2012/09/18/pastor-max-lucado-launches-40-day-prayer-campaign-ahead-of-election/

Here is the prayer:

Dear Heavenly Father,

You have given us this promise: ”…if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.” (2 Chronicles 7:14)

So, we pray to you. We turn from evil and look to you, our God. Please:

Unite us

Strengthen us

Appoint and anoint our next president

In the name of Christ we pray,

Amen

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Fruitful Leadership


John 15 5-8 from The Message

“I am the Vine, you are the branches. When you’re joined with me and I with you, the relation intimate and organic, the harvest is sure to be abundant. Separated, you can’t produce a thing. Anyone who separates from me is deadwood, gathered up and thrown on the bonfire. But if you make yourselves at home with me and my words are at home in you, you can be sure that whatever you ask will be listened to and acted upon. This is how my Father shows who he is—when you produce grapes, when you mature as my disciples.

Thinking on John 15:5 after COR Leadership Institute on Wednesday.

Fruitful

That’s not how she gave when someone first invited her to Sunday School.   
That’s not how she gave the first day she read Noah.
That’s not how she gave when first she left for TeenServe.
That’s not how she gave when she first sang Christmas prelude.
The pre-work came.
And harvest day came.
God filled her and shaped her.
So too farmer Dooley fed the stock each day.
Each year on schedule he cultivated and rotated, repaired and pruned.
Farmer Dooley read each day. He planned.
He cared and nourished.
The farmer forefathers were disciplined and scheduled, and changeable too.
We know our mission.
We seek our mission.
We live our mission.
We connect each other, each place, filled with Jesus.  
We love.
We learn.
We grow.
We know him.
We produce fresh fruits.
We do this that others may share relationship with Jesus.
We bear fruit each day.
Let us bear fruit even on the days when we see no fruit yet.
And let us still remember: His fruitfulness is unpredictable.

(c) Tom Bolton, Leahwood, Kansas

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My Sons


It is good to be pleased with one’s sons, I think.

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My Sons, Who Please Me

Will I sound blasphemous to introduce
My Sons:
These are my sons, in whom I am well pleased.
Will I sound evil to use God’s words that way?
Maybe not.
I am blessed most days as I meditate on His words.
These sons of mine–God’s blessings now and when old–
can they be any more than what God has made them?
This Nathan, husband and calm anchor,
who has taught him this way if not the Holy One?
What fathers mentored him? What wise ones taught him,  if not Abba, father, God-of-Grace, God-of- Love?
This quick-witted Nathan,
This one who calls out the false ones, the phonies,
Is he not a mighty son?
This John, gentle and sure, questioning and hearing,
Who has taught him his ways in this world? None here!
What father showed him? What booming bas sang the word  into him? None of this world, none of my time.
Was it not the wise One who breathed the Word into him,  our God-of-Grace, God-of-Love?
This angel of a son, this musical John,
This one who helps when he hears a call,
Is he not my son too?
Today I see my sons about me,
even as they are away from me,
and I know:
I am blessed by my sons.

(c) Tom Bolton, Milwaukee, September 27, 2012

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COR Leadership Institute: Finding Leadership Principles in the Ten Commandments


At this year’s Church of the Resurrection Leadership Institute, I attended as my second pre-conference workshop on Wednesday: A Brief Overview of the 10 Timeless Principles for Next Generation Leaders. This packed presentation by Jim Lucas illustrated the bridge  of doing well by doing right, as he identified it. He effectively demonstrated over and over the remarkable connection between ethics and performance.  This exciting presentation was based on the 2007 book, High Performance Ethics:  10 Timeless Principles for Next Generation Leadership, by Wes Cantrell and Lucas.  I was pleasantly surprised by the power of Lucas’ speaking.

The book and this workshop were actually based on the 10 Commandments, and authors unpacked each of the ten commandments in a way that keeps the commandments timeless, and at the same time provides excellent management principles.

For instance, the first principle is First Things First.  This principle is based on God’s commandment that we have no other gods but He.  It leads us to the leadership principle:  High performance ethics leaders are Restless.  Lucas took us through a rapid series of questions for this principle, including:

How do we know what the first things are?

What are our core excellencies?

What actually differentiates excellence from competence?

He provides a list of key comments, as well as spot-on quotes, for each principle.  His key comments on that first principle included:

Not “First things first,” as though we have time for secondary things and nonsense.

Life is too short to waste on other things.

Do we have our eyes on the prize?

Are we devoting our work and lives to the “main concern?”  Do we know what that is?

Does everyone have a really good reason to do the work they’re doing?

During small group discussions, my group of eight discussed the first principle (First Things Only).  We explored from our experiences the difference between “first things only” and “first things first.”  What are the “first things” on which we want to have our teams focus relentlessly?  We particularly discussed a recent survey that found that 75 percent of employers said that don’t screen effectively for the job applicant’s moral character.  This was not much of a surprise to our group.  We think that employers don’t consider a “character check” as essential as a “background check” because of fears about litigation, difficulty in defining character, a vague notion that they are already doing, and concerns about how to do it.  We spent much our time trying to figure out how to do it.

Also at Leadership Institute Wednesday, I attended:  Bearing Fruit: God’s Alternative to Success.

I was most excited to get the new book (with a 2013 release date!) by Pastor Scott Chrostek, Pursuit:  Living Fully in Search of God’s Presence.  I have been a fan of Pastor Scott’s preaching since I first heard him in 2009 (on my iPod).  I look forward to opportunities to download his messages from iTunes as often as I find him.  I didn’t get a chance to meet Scott on Wednesday, but I hope to see him Thursday or Friday.

Later Wednesday, I got to visit COR’s mid-high Youth Group meeting.  It was tremendous.

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