Comments on a Book: Every Day


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In early March I happened upon a book review for Every Day, by David Levithan, while I was heading home on the bus from serving at the Optimist Oratorical Contest. The plot struck me as remarkably creative and I yearned to read this piece of fiction. After mulling it over for a few days, I decided to buy the kindle edition of the book. I’ve been reading a few pages each night on the bus, and I am enjoying this juvenile experience.

I was a fan of science fiction for decades, and it is a long time since I saw a plotline that seemed completely new to me. This one does. It has also brought me back to some of my thought processes from my teen years, and that has refreshed.

David Levithan was born after I graduated from high school in 1972.  At 19, he received an internship at Scholastic Corporation where he began working on the The Baby-sitters Club series.  Levithan still works for Scholastic as an editorial director. He is also the founding editor of PUSH, a young-adult imprint of Scholastic Press focusing on new voices and new authors.  PUSH publishes edgier material for young adults.  He has written 13 novels, most notably perhaps Boy Meets Boy (2003), collaborated on at least half a dozen others, and continues to edit.

I know, I know:  Levithan writes for children and young adults.  But I am loving his creativity and his insights on relationships.  The main plot line is wonderfully creative to me, but I am reluctant to reveal it here and create a spoiler.  I think it might have been logically more fully developed, but the compelling story about romantic love somewhat compensates for that.   It is at its core a book about acceptance of others.  The cover blurb is:  Every day a different body. Every day a different life. Every day in love with the same girl.

What initially grabbed me about the book was the creative plot device.  As I read the book, though, I really came to appreciate Levithan’s descriptions of how individuals relate with each other, and how we think about gender.

Here are a few quotes that I liked:

“This is what love does: It makes you want to rewrite the world. It makes you want to choose the characters, build the scenery, guide the plot. The person you love sits across from you, and you want to do everything in your power to make it possible, endlessly possible.  And when it’s just the two of you, alone in a room, you can pretend that this is how it is, this is how it will be.”

“If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: We all want everything to be okay. We don’t even wish so much for fantastic or marvelous or outstanding. We will happily settle for okay, because most of the time, okay is enough.”

“I have been to many religious services over the years. Each one I go to only reinforces my general impression that religions have much, much more in common than they like to admit. The beliefs are almost always the same; it’s just that the histories are different. Everybody wants to believe in a higher power. Everybody wants to belong to something bigger than themselves, and everybody wants company in doing that. They want there to be a force of good on earth, and they want an incentive to be a part of that force. They want to be able to prove their belief and their belonging, through rituals and devotion. They want to touch the enormity.
It’s only in the finer points that it gets complicated and contentious, the inability to realize that no matter what our religion or gender or race or geographic background, we all have about 98 percent in common with each other. yes, the differences between male and female are biological, but if you look at the biology as a matter of percentage, there aren’t a whole lot of things that are different. Race is different purely as a social construction, not as an inherent difference. And religion–whether you believe in God or Yahweh or Allah or something else, odds are that at heart you want the same things. For whatever reason, we like to focus on the 2 percent that’s different, and most of the conflict in the world comes from that.” 

“Some people think mental illness is a matter of mood, a matter of personality.  They think depression is simply a form of being sad, that OCD is a form of being uptight.  They think the soul is sick, not the body.  It is, they believe, something that you have some choice over.

“I know how wrong this is.

“When I was a child, I didn’t understand.  I would wake up in a new body and wouldn’t comprehend why things felt muted, dimmer.  Or the opposite–I’d be supercharged, unfocused, like a radio at top volume flipping quickly from station to station.  Since I didn’t have access to the body’s emotions, I assumed the ones I was feeling were my own.  Eventually, though, I realized these inclinations, these compulsions, were as much a part of the body as its eye color or its voice.  Yes, the feelings themselves were intangible, amorphous, but the cause of the feelings was a matter of chemistry, biology.

“It is a hard cycle to conquer.  The body is working against you.  And because of this, you feel even more despair.  Which only amplifies the imbalance.  It takes uncommon strength to live with these things.  But I have seen that strength over and over again.”

“There is a part of childhood that is childish, and a part that is sacred.  Suddenly we are touching the sacred part — running to the shoreline, feeling the first cold burst of water on our ankles, reaching into the tide to catch at shells before they ebb away from our fingers.  We have returned to a world that is capable of glistening, and we are wading deeper within it.”

For me this has been a fine trip to explore my youth in a variety of vantage points.

I liked the book.

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I Have No Idea — A Prayer of Thomas Merton


Ronald E. Powaski has written about the Trappi...Richard Hall, a Methodist Minister in Wales, posted this blog Wednesday, and it really hit home to me at lunchtime:

The Connexion

My Lord God,
I have no idea where I am going.
I do not see the road ahead of me.
I do not know for certain where it will end.
Nor do I really know myself,
and the fact that I think that I am following your will
does not mean that I am actually doing so.
But I believe that the desire to please You
does in fact please You.
……………………………
I will not fear, for You are ever with me,
and You will never leave me to face my perils alone.

Thomas Merton, Thoughts in Solitude (New York: Farrar, Strauss & Co., 1958).

Check out more of the poem at Hall’s blog, which is linked above.

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Love


Love, Fabric

Of real people, we care for festers;
Practical, more than just ethical,
we dirty our hands.
We ache and cry at the end of the day.
Like Christ, we love the real person.
More a doing than a feeling,
we love.
In our love, we do not desire more;
we serve.
Love originates in Christ:
Not in my brother, my sister,
my wife, my sons,
and not in some seen enemy,
but in Christ.
He is the light.
He is the word.
He is love.
In this rough fabric of our lives,
the Spirit weaves in love.
Love cleanses hands.
Love strengthens fabric.
Love shines bright.

(c) Tom Bolton, 8 April 2013, Milwaukee

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Precious


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Which Precious Things?

Which precious things did I lose or belittle today?
I found myself seeking sadness Saturday.
In serving, I looked for grieving folk.
I was walking beside some brothers, but
lost sight of them, my
peripheral sight slothful.
I was thankful when I arrived,
and then forgot to share it.
Fill me again,
so that I might share.
Fill me up.
I would share you again.
I was a sad sack.
Fill me with joy.

(C) Tom Bolton, 6 April 2013, Milwaukee

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Studying Mere Christianity


http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=KeBU5yck2ss

This blog may be mostly for John and me. We are participating in a C.S. Lewis reading plan throughout 2013. But I know many others who have studied Mere Christianity this past year, and so this may be a good video for others who visit here.

Here also are a few quotes from Mere Christianity:

“Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on; you knew that those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised. But presently He starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make any sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of – throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were being made into a decent little cottage: but He is building a palace. He intends to come and live in it Himself.” ― C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

“A proud man is always looking down on things and people; and, of course, as long as you are looking down, you cannot see something that is above you.”

“If the whole universe has no meaning, we should never  have found out that it has no meaning: just as, if there were no light in the universe and therefore no creatures with eyes, we should never know it was dark. Dark would be without meaning.”

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I hope you enjoy this.

While I am on the topic, I also want to recommend the resources of the C.S. Lewis Institute.  I mostly use their podcasts and online articles, but they have started to send me a fantastic journal in my snail mail too.  Founded in 1976 in the legacy of C. S. Lewis, the Institute endeavors to develop disciples who will articulate, defend, and live their faith in Christ in personal and public life.  The Institute has embarked on reproducing disciples in its Decade of Discipleship program.

 

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Unshakable Hope


Lee Strobel, taken 2007-10-21.

Lee Strobel, taken 2007-10-21. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Unshakable Hope

I am sharing a blog from a favorite blog buddy of mine.  (Can I call Bill a “buddy” even though we haven’t met face to face?  I hope it is okay.)

In recounting the story of Lee Strobel, who was an award-winning investigative journalist and the legal editor for the Chicago Tribune, he shares this,

As Lee says, when you accept the resurrection of Christ as a historical fact, it leads to hope and transformation“It gives me hope that as Jesus was resurrected from the dead, so I will someday be too. It gives me confidence in the teachings of Jesus, that I can apply them to my life, that they’ll make a difference in my life. They’re not just the teachings of a bright and loving individual; they’re the teachings of the Son of God himself. It means to me that Jesus deserves my worship and my allegiance. It also means that I want to spend my life helping other people see the evidence for the resurrection, that they too may experience what I’ve experienced, which is a 180-degree life change from my days as an atheist, to my days as a Christian.”

Lee Srobel’s research is now compiled in his best-selling book, The Case for Christ.

I recommend reading the full post, which is linked above, and check out some of Bill’s other posts too.

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Crown of Life


Gospel Book, Title page of the Gospel of Matth...

Gospel Book, Title page of the Gospel of Matthew, Walters Manuscript W.528, fol. 2r (Photo credit: Walters Art Museum Illuminated Manuscripts)

This Crown of Life

It is here that we help,
sometimes in piddling ways,
often trifling and external;
we help by being beside.
In fellowship, we work.
In families, in singles,
together,
we hold each other in well-being.
The whole gamut of care,
we encourage,
we help,
we hug and hold, and we listen.
We lift these ones up,
and up.

(c) Tom Bolton, 2 April, 2013, Milwaukee

Matthew 25:40

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